2009年8月27日星期四

This i believe

This I believe
David
#4


This I believe, Understanding and communicating is the best way to resolve misunderstandings. Miscommunication reveals the world’s most chaotic part in any society.
And make things seem worst then they are suppose to be.
When I was in middle school in China, I used to have a friend. A Farley close friend of mine we went to the same school and everything. We had everything together, sometime back then for no apparent reason he ignored me and started to talk bad things behind my back. I found out from other people, I didn’t want to confront him because I was afraid of losing our friendship if something were to happen, we didn’t talk for the next few weeks and time after that we started making other friends and slowly forgetting each other. Sometime after a year or two, I met him again by accident. We had a conversation not very long and slowly got into the topic of how we ignored each other. It happened to be that there was another student who told my closest friend bad things that I did not say and giving him ideas that I never really had. Sometimes in situations like this, the best way that I should’ve done things was probably by confronting him, which I was incredibly nervous to do. Opening up a person’s eyes and revealing the secret within is by talking.
People do not normally realize the importance of talking but it clearly does help. People today knows talking is the solution of things but not always, but it may help others realize the inconvenience that other kids do to ruin a wonderful friendship. Until today we still remain not as close as we were.
This world today, contains all kinds of cruelty and hurtful things design to break one down. By understanding and communication we are able to unlock many mysterious kinds of secrets and things that are obvious to us but are neglecting to see it.
If only we can only travel back in time, to change the past and make a better future. We could’ve had something wonderful, but nothing is always what it seems. Because of the past I met new people and understand them and know how to communicate better. With a mistake that I’ve learned I know what I must do.